Saturday, November 11, 2006

The Proposal!

For those of you who know Sam, it won't come as any suprises to hear that he had planned a very romantic and special proposal. On the 17th October as we were travelling to Nairobi from Kampala it suddenly became clear that Sam had other ideas for the journey. We were about 2 hrs from Nairobi, when Sam decided that we were doing so well for time that we should take a little detour and see some sights. I agreed and was quite happy when we came accross a lodge in a game park and Sam suggested we stopped for a cup of tea.

At this point I was clueless and I innocently thought it was just a cup of tea!!! Little did I know! At the gate to the park the guard questioned us saying there were many people at the lodge! Sam got out the car to talk to the guard and I could see them laughing, but I still didn't realise anything was going on! It was only as we parked at the lodge, that the suprise was given away, with two men asking to take our bags for us! Sam had to admit that this wasn't just a cup of tea, but actually we were staying there for the night. At this point the thought of engagement flashed passed my mind, but I still was unsure.

The lodge was in a beautiful setting overlooking the river. That evening Sam had arranged for us to have a meal for just the two of us at the top of the main area. We had a gorgeous meal by lamplight and then at the end of the meal the moment came!

Sam was telling me all about the traditions with in the Batooro culture, explaining how the guy selects the girl by tieing a white handkerchief around her neck on the day of introduction. At that moment he then pulled out a white handkerchief from his bag, tied it round my neck, went down on one knee and asked me to marry him! I was overcome with so much excitement and happiness and I think I said yes almost straight away.

It was a very special evening and one neither of us will forget for a very long time to come. We then went to buy the engagement ring together the next day.

From that point on the preparations have begun!